I mentioned in a previous post that talking about sex is very taboo in my family. I have a big family and spend a lot of time with them so naturally I grew up uncomfortable talking about sex too. (more…)
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I had a conversation with people I was close with about nurses who help disabled people find sexual pleasure. Someone brought up a documentary about the nurses who do this and I offered that I heard a little about it in my Unruly Bodies class. I told them briefly about our section on disabled bodies and the things we’ve discussed in class. (more…)
Posted in activism, behavior, bodies, body politics, culture, death, gender, loss of control, mental health, sex, sexual violence, society, Uncategorized, tagged acceptance, Body Violence, emotional health, mental health, physical health, Rape Culture, sexual assault on October 24, 2016| 4 Comments »
Posted in bodies, culture, gender, media, nature/the natural, pregnancy, sex, sexuality, transgender, Uncategorized, tagged alpha/beta/omega, fanfiction, mpreg, trans on December 11, 2014| 2 Comments »
I read a lot of fanfiction. (Like, a lot.) I even write some. For those who aren’t familiar with the phenomenon, it can seem a strange and alien landscape. Some authors and actors welcome it, others revile it, but most would rather not know what their characters get up to in their readers’ and viewers’ heads. There’s even fanfiction written about real people—even if they’re in an alternate universe where magic works and the boys in that one band are firefighters or werewolves instead.
When I think critically about why I decided to visit the doctors a few years ago, if I really am honest with myself, I realize I was seeking sympathy more then a cure. That’s not to say I wasn’t looking for a solution. I just wanted someone to reassure me that I would be okay and tell me there was some sort of several-step program that could “fix” my body effortlessly. This was not the case (could you guess?).